We are big advocates for flirting! Flirting to spark relationships, by accident or just for fun. Whatever the reason, the person on the receiving end will feel amazing as a result. When a man flirts with you, it builds confidence and boosts self-esteem, especially if you are subconscious about your looks.
Flirtations rely on what you say and how you say it, particularly when talking to bigger girls. When flirting with big beautiful women there are flirting faux pas commonly made by men. You don't start off the conversation on the wrong foot by coming off as creepy or derogatory. We have listed the common mistakes to avoid and things to do to get noticed by BBW.
Even if you think it's a compliment most women do not like to discuss their weight, whether they are skinny, average or curvy, it is not a topic to discuss. BBWs (much like any other woman) want to be recognised for themselves, not her silhouette. You could try comments such as "You look amazing in that dress" or "You have beautiful eyes/smile".
Casually flirting with girls may seem like a bit of fun but can be harmful to girls with low self-esteem. You should make your intentions clear, particularly if you have no intention of taking it further than a casual flirt. Let our BBW know where they stand. If you are not being respectful, BBWs are confident enough to shut you down and show you the door.
Some larger ladies will have their guard up and by genuinely complimenting her you should begin to gain her trust. You are more likely to break down any barriers by being genuine than hitting out with cheesy pick-up lines. Any woman wants to know a man is interested in more than her body. Why not try compliments such as "You are a confident, self-loving person" or "You've got a sexy personality".
Although you should be careful what you say when flirting with big ladies, it doesn't mean you can't be funny or cheeky. Using humour is a great way of catching the attention of BBWs, it shows you also have some self-confidence and are not afraid to be yourself. Nobody wants to date or chat with a big, boring dud. If it is the first time speaking to them, avoid fat jokes until you know where she stands with this type of humour. If she does not appreciate your jokes, then it is a sure-fire way of knowing she's not the girl for you.
When on BBW dating sites, the women are generally waiting for you to make the first move. You want to make sure your BBW knows you are interested in them and are willing to initiate contact. If you are in the same room, eye contact is very important. Eye contact shows you are not afraid to show the desire for them, especially if you are in a public space.
BBWs are no longer defined by their shape or size. You want her to know you are interested in her for who she is and not just her big beautiful breasts, bum and love handles. The bottom line is when flirting with a BBW you want to make them feel wanted. Treat a BBW as you would any other woman, be respectful and do not mention her weight.
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